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A Timeleft alternative with personality — not a lottery.
Timeleft is five strangers at a Wednesday dinner. The match is a short quiz and a night-before reveal. Friends? gives you a real 120-item Big Five profile, ranks the whole city against it, and lets you choose — or join a 3–8 person hang any night of the week.
Head to head
Friends? vs. Timeleft
| Category | Friends? | Timeleft |
|---|---|---|
| Matching depth | IPIP-NEO-120 — 120 items, 30 facets, 5 Big Five domains. | Short onboarding quiz (~15–20 items). |
| Who you meet | You see everyone ranked for compatibility and pick who to DM. | Surprise reveal the night before dinner. |
| When it happens | Any night. Group meetups are 3–8 people, scheduled by anyone. | Wednesday dinners, one city, one time. |
| 1-on-1 friendships | Core product. Personality + DM + plan-the-hang. | Not the product — group-first only. |
| DM privacy | End-to-end encrypted. Zero staff visibility. | Standard in-app messaging. |
| Price | Free tier real · paid $7.99–$29.99/mo. | ~$22 per dinner + membership. |
Why personality beats a dinner lottery
Surprise isn't the problem. Fit is.
Timeleft's bet is that serendipity sells — you show up to a restaurant and find out who's there. And it works as a one-time night out. But it doesn't build ongoing friendships, because the match was never measured against who you actually are.
Friends? bets the opposite way. Before you meet anyone, we score you on 30 Big Five facets using the IPIP-NEO-120. Then we rank your whole community by facet overlap. You see who fits. You pick. The AI plans the hang. When the dinner actually happens, it's five people who were sorted for you — not drawn out of a hat.
Both / and
You don't have to choose.
If you love the Timeleft feel — strangers, surprise, dinner — you can run it on Friends?. Host a 5-person meetup, pick an activity-tag filter ("new restaurant"), pick a time, publish. You get the dinner. You also get personality pre-filtering, an E2EE group thread, and the ability to continue the friendship after the check is split. Timeleft's UX forks at "Wednesday dinner only" — Friends? keeps the optionality.
Frequently asked
Is Friends? trying to kill Timeleft?
No. Timeleft proved there's demand for real-world friendship product experiences. We think the next generation of those products should be personality-matched, privacy-preserving, and work every night of the week — not just Wednesdays.
Can I do one-on-one hangs on Friends?
Yes — one-on-one is the primary flow. Group meetups (3–8 people) are a secondary surface for users who want the Timeleft-style dinner experience.
What cities is Friends? live in?
Everywhere in the US. Local events pull from Ticketmaster, Yelp, Reddit, OpenStreetMap, and public holiday APIs, filtered to your radius. Timeleft is limited to ~60 cities.
How much does it cost?
Free tier: 5 matches/day, 3 events/day, read-only DMs. Friend+ $7.99/mo unlocks DMs and AI-planned hangs. Social $14.99/mo is unlimited. Founders' $29.99/mo (capped at 1,000) gets verification and priority matching.
Is the matching really backed by research?
Yes. IPIP-NEO-120 is a public-domain Big Five instrument with thousands of peer-reviewed citations. It isn't a pop quiz — it produces real facet-level scores that predict long-term compatibility.
Give it five minutes
Meet people who actually fit — and do something real.
Free tier, Big Five test, three matches nearby. No ads, ever.